5.25.2010

new york state of mind ii



self-explanatory icing on the best carrot cake,
and i don't even like carrot cake...

as a final goodbye,
so long,
last hurrah,
what you will,
the good people of the empire diner,
decided to throw a goodbye party.
in attendance were:
longtime patrons and relatively new ones (me),
servers from long ago and current ones,
and everyone in between.

everything was on the house,
the smiles came easily,
conversations became boisterous,
memories were revisited,
and people lingered.
it was as it should have been.




one of the waitresses,
circa 1979,
shortly after the diner opened,
giving an interview to ny1.
there was a collection of three,
each in black and funky jewelry,
with fascinating stories.
one met her first husband there.
anther remembered numerous limousines after hours,
and jerry hall,
or was it bianca jagger,
eating in a large party at one end.

there were sad stories too though.
out of three original owners,
one died of cancer,
and the other from aids.
all were spoken well of and remembered fondly.

as a young kid,
running in and our at all hours,
laughing too loudly with friends,
i could've guessed at the fun tales,
but did not know the sad ones.



the first piano player,
on the extreme left,
overcome by sun.
in the middle,
someone playing for kicks that day,
and on the right,
a patron,
(in the great scarf),
who's first meal in america -
i'd heard him admit -
was at the empire.




one of the handful of owners -
i believe -
spiking the punch.
earlier,
it had been rum.



then,
before we knew it,
the cake had been cut and eaten,
the drinks had been finished,
and the day was close to running out.
it was time to go.

5.24.2010

where the sidewalk is divided



new york,
what are you trying to say?

i understand the humor in the lanes.
to a point.
tourists are known to meander,
look up and take photographs -
and all quite slowly.

stuck behind a collection of japanese tourists,
or an italian family or a gorgeous brazilian couple,
maybe even a small french family with young children,
i myself have been annoyed.

i doubt if i could any longer qualify as a tourist.
day tripper would be a more accurate term.
and just so you know,
new york,
some of your ilk get in my way.

http://nymag.com/daily/intel/2010/05/tourist_sidewalk_lanes_actuall.html

5.20.2010

empire state of mind


self-explanatory new yorker cover.

a last meal at the empire diner,
on thursday may 13, 2010.
i used to love going to empire diner,
and i'm sorry that it's closing.
and being replaced by a coffee shop franchise.




one of the best omelets ever,
it was perfect for a late night meal -
4 or 5 am -
after whatever bar or club i'd been to with friends,
or for breakfast at the actual start of the day.
ordering it became a pleasant habit,
a habit that i'm sorry must now come to an end.


a heart indeed.

5.18.2010

dear diary

i am an abhorrent diarist...
perhaps this is not the correct word.
absent?
not completely though.
i've been a little laxed -
or is it just lax...
i've been a little lax.

in my defense,
i have been looking for a new job.
perhaps though,
i should stop looking,
and start applying.
with abandon.

i have no artwork to accompany this post,
and somehow feel a google-searched image of a diary,
or clip art of someone on a job search,
(figure of a man holding a presumed resume),
is somehow...
tacky.

3.25.2010

their first new york



i've been obsessively reading these the last few days,
the stories are funny and touching,
mostly,
i think they're exciting.
they lend themselves to day-dreaming,
which i am apt to do anyway...

among my favorites:
graydon carter - 1978,
david rakoff - 1982.

and from the earlier incarnation:
diane von furstenberg - 1970,
lauren hutton - 1964,
mary boone - 1970,
amy sedaris - 1993.

excerpt:
maggie gyllenhaal - 1995.

i grew up in l.a. and moved back here to go to college at columbia, where i lived in the dorm for the first two years. i had a boyfriend who lived on ludlow street, and i couldn’t believe a place as alive and wild as that existed. i wanted to drop out of school and hang out there. my boyfriend had a teeny, tiny apartment that he shared with another guy. they had built bunk beds. and i would sleep over. the roommate would still be there, but we figured it out, like you do when you’re that age. we would use the pink pony like it was our kitchen and living room. i felt it was such a great way to live. i don’t know how I’d manage that now.

http://nymag.com/news/features/64944/
http://nymag.com/news/features/56014/

3.23.2010

home is a four letter word



new york times article,
"facing a financial pinch,
and moving in with mom and dad,"
puts down in cold hard numbers,
the plight of the boomeranger:
the recently graduated,
out of work or under-employed,
broke,
in debt,
lost and at loose ends,
twenty-something -
the returned prodigal child.

boomeranger,
i suppose i can add yet another label to the pyre.

http://www.nytimes.com/2010/03/22/nyregion/22singles.html

3.17.2010

day trip - 03.13.10-03.14.10

i ventured out saturday evening,
much against the protestations of family.
admittedly,
it was a fierce storm,
but i was determined.



had dinner at juliette on north 5th street in williamsburg.
i ordered white bean and spinage pureed soup,
and a huge bowl of simple and delicious mussels.
the weather required a goodly amount of red wine,
so my friend and i indulged.

the feeling is unlike the keith mcnally experience.
it'st been outfitted with cast offs from original european cafes,
so it has a genuine tone.
i half expected sylvia beach to complain about my wet umbrella.



next morning,
my friend and i went to the otto dix exhibit at the neue galerie.
i enjoyed it,
though something tells me he had issues with the female gender.
afterward,
we went to the man ray exhibit at the jewish museum,
on its last day and at the latest possible time.
story of my life.
i enjoyed it,
especially because it featured paintings,
as well as photos and "rayographs,"
but was disappointed my favorite wasn't on display:
a l'heure de l'observatoire - lex amoureux.



we went back to the neue for a light supper,
(not so light it turned out),
at the cafe sabarsky.
as always,
the meal was very good,
finished with their excellent hot chocolate and rehrucken,
a chocolate marzipan cake with orange confiture.
quite good.

easy, breezy



isn't this a great idea?
the man who wrote this piece,
miguel androver,
combined form and function,
and wore this when traveling.
apparently,
it is not strictly relegated to plane travel,
either.

i wish i had the cajones to pull it off,
i have an indian tunic that hits mid-thigh,
which i can't quite bring myself to wear over dungarees,
and definitely not in new jersey...

http://tmagazine.blogs.nytimes.com/2010/03/16/multi-culti/

3.09.2010

snow and hyacinths



i love that last weekend there was snow outside,
and this was the view from my window,
now a week later,
it's a balmy 55 degrees and sunny.
snow is melting and the hyacinths have pushed to the surface.

2.26.2010

good place to live: 75.5 bedford



passed this sweet little house last summer,
and fell in love.
when i saw the plaque,
stating edna st. vincent millay had lived there once upon a time,
it was confirmed.

apparently,
margaret mead also lived there,
and cary grant supposedly slept there.
but i think he slept everywhere.

at nine and a half feet wide,
it is the narrowest house in the city.
it sold a couple of months ago,
for only $2.7 million.

http://www.corcoran.com/property/listing.aspx?Region=NYC&ListingID=1863927

2.24.2010

cold weather



i needed a new coat...
or,
felt i needed a new coat.

l.a. has its car culture,
new york definitely has its shoe culture,
and during its winter months,
there is this undeniable coat culture.

burberry prorsum came to the rescue,
on sale no less.

perhaps not quite as striking,
but surely more reasonable than the mcqueen,
which i'd tried on and which they had to pry off of me.



2.23.2010

finally

i think i'm going to give this blog thing the proverbial "go."
i've finally decided on a title i'm somewhat satisfied with,
so why not?

7.02.2009

first things... first.

i think it's fitting that the first post be a quote from slim keith,
whom truman capote famously characterized as lady ina coolbirth in la cote basque.

"for me, it was enough to be in hollywood - it was where any girl who was operating on a mixture of instinct, charm, and good looks would have chosen to be in 1938."
(from her 1990 memoir, "slim: memories of a rich and imperfect life")

i have just a single question: where should a guy devoid of instinct, with only passable social skills and not completely unfortunate looking choose to subsist in 2009?